Invited to a party and wondering if you should give something to the hosts? The answer is always YES! Etiquette is something that will never go out of style and will present you in the best light at any event. After all, your hostess has spent time and effort trying to create a memorable dinner. Even if you choose something simple like wine or a box of chocolates, with the gift you are appreciating the effort.

As a grateful guest, it’s wonderful to show your appreciation to your host in an appropriate yet interesting way! Although gift-giving etiquette can vary across cultures, some clear guidelines are common to most. There are simple rules about what to bring when invited to a party, as well as how your gift should be presented.

Whether you’re attending a formal dinner party or just stopping by for drinks with friends, bring a thoughtful and appropriate gift for the hostess or host. You will undoubtedly become a favorite guest. Here’s how to choose the best gift:

What should I bring as a hostess gift?

The gifts you bring to a dinner party or other formal gathering are traditionally known as “hostess gifts,” but they can be something personal for the host or even for the entire family. Gifts for good hostesses differ from other occasions in that they are usually not overly personal items. By definition, a hostess gift is something that can be used to entertain on the day itself or for a future event.

Choose a gift that will show how happy you are to be invited and is also practical and unique. It’s not necessarily about luxury hostess gifts, but something you know they’ll love to use. Think about how to improve the atmosphere, what the host needs to make things run smoothly or even add a fun element. A luxurious and well packaged gourmet box can be the perfect way to say “thank you for having me”.

What is the etiquette when giving hostess gifts?

When you need to say a big “thank you,” it’s better to give something, even if it’s not strictly necessary. However, if you forget to give the host a gift when you are invited to his home, you will probably feel embarrassed! Before you choose your gifts, there are some general hostess etiquette tips to keep in mind:

Try to be discreet when making a hostess gift. There may be other guests who have not observed etiquette and it would be impolite to make them feel uncomfortable for not bringing a gift.

The more formal the event, the more formal your hostess gift should be. A cocktail dinner needs a more elegant or luxurious gift than an ordinary family dinner.

If you are invited to stay in someone’s home for a few days, choose gifts that last longer and keep in mind the length of your visit. According to the label, with them you can contribute to the dinner.

When invited to a new home, always take a small gift for the newcomer, whether someone has recently moved in or a new neighbor has invited you over for dinner.

When it’s a gift for someone you don’t know, ask them beforehand if you can contribute in any way or if there’s anything they specifically need.

Choosing supplies such as a gourmet box or wine as a hostess gift is a practical idea. Hosts may choose to share the treats at the dinner party, but it is also acceptable to enjoy their gift when the guests are gone.

Hostess gifts, especially food and wine, do not need to be wrapped. If you decide to wrap, don’t expect the hosts to open your gift or use it right away. They are likely to focus on receiving and welcoming their other guests.

What to bring as a dinner gift?

Hostess gifts are an important part of dinner party etiquette, and choosing the right one can completely change your relationship with your hostesses. There are several different factors to consider when choosing the perfect gift. First, it needs to be something that is appropriate for a dinner setting, such as a bottle of wine or a tray of gourmet treats like you’ll find in our gourmet boxes . Second, the gift should be thoughtful, reflecting your appreciation for the hosts’ efforts. Finally, their individual tastes and preferences must be taken into account.

Wine is a classic hostess gift, so a gourmet wine basket is sure to impress the hostess. Or if you know they prefer beer, a gourmet box of beer and matching treats is a great gift.

Choose a gluten-free box of treats for someone who is gluten intolerant.

If you know that hosts do not drink alcohol, then be sure to choose an alcohol-free basket as a gift for the host.

What to bring to dinner when they tell you not to bring anything?

Gift giving is an important part of etiquette in many cultures, especially at dinner parties. Sometimes your hostess may be too polite to ask you to bring something to share and will say, “Just bring yourself.” Consider whether you really want to go empty-handed. If the answer is no, a small gift such as chocolate, wine, champagne or flowers is usually most acceptable. But why not choose a gourmet box in which the wine is complemented by the ideal sweet or savoury treats.

If you’re looking for another type of gift, lovely scented candles or essential oil diffusers are a great way to create a pleasant atmosphere in the home, during the event or afterwards. You can also choose glasses, wine coolers, ice cube trays, wooden cutting boards, cheese boards or serving plates.

If you’re invited to a family event, playing card or board games will help everyone have fun.

Is it rude to bring food to dinner?

When inviting guests, many hosts planned a curated menu for dinner and didn’t actually ask for food as a gift. It can also be frustrating if guests bring nibbles and everyone is full just before the meal! If you are going to take food, ask in advance and respect the host’s wishes. Choose something to enjoy for breakfast the next day or that can be saved for the hosts to enjoy.

If you’re looking for something extra special to say “thank you for having me” then take a look at our collection of gift baskets. In it, you’ll find ideas for what to bring to a casual dinner party. For more formal dinners or special occasions, you’ll find impressive luxury hostess gifts with sparkling champagne and luxurious little treats. There’s no better way to show your appreciation for all their hard work and great food!